" He who cannot dance will say " The drum is bad." - Ashanti
One of the four determinants of emotional intelligence is self-knowledge, but some of us lack the practice in developing it. I have often said that when I become excessively angry about something I'm usually wrong! In some way, I have overlooked my own errors or made excuses for them. Self-knowledge is freeing, because we can give up the idea of perfection, and choose something better. What could be better than perfection? The answer is innovation or surprise. A relationship becomes vibrant and energized by something new and different, while still acknowledging the partner's ritual behaviors. Self-knowledge helps us to develop our own dance, and then to love self because of all those graceful moves we can make! What do you appreciate about your own dance?
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